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一些很好的建议!

  1. “It’s not an apology if it comes with an excuse. It is not a compliment if it comes with a request. ”

如果道歉夹带理由或借口,本质上是在为自己开脱,而不是承担责任。真正的道歉应当是直面错误,不推卸、不辩解。

如果夸奖后立刻提要求,这夸奖就成了手段,不是发自内心的赞赏。真诚的赞美不图回报,只是表达认可。

  1. "Learn how to learn from those you disagree with, or even offend you. See if you can find the truth in what they believe. "

放下成见,善于从不同或对立的观点中吸取智慧,这能拓宽你的认知边界。

  1. "Always demand a deadline. A deadline weeds out the extraneous and the ordinary. It prevents you from trying to make it perfect, so you have to make it different. Different is better."

时间压力能激发创新,不要浪费时间在琐碎细节上。